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Smaller Share of Women Ages 65 and Older Are Living Alone

1. Gender gap in share of older adults living alone narrows

Divergent trends in living alone for older men and women

Behind the overall decline since 1990 in the share of adults ages 65 and older living alone are diverging patterns for men and women. Historically, older women have been somewhat more likely than men to live alone, but their share rose rapidly from the 1950s to 1990 before abruptly declining. By contrast, the share of older men who live alone rose more gradually from 1900 onward, and continued to increase after 1990 until it leveled off at 18% between 2010 and 2014.

Living arrangements of older adults are closely tied to their marital status. Just over half (53%) of older adults were married and lived with their spouses in 2014, up slightly in recent decades. 4

Among the 22 million unmarried older adults, the majority (55%) lived alone in 2014. 5

Another 22% lived with their children, 16% lived with other relatives or non-relatives, and 7% lived in a nursing home or other group quarters. 6

Widowhood declines as rising share of older Americans are divorced

Because of women’s higher life expectancy, they are the majority of U.S. adults ages 65 and older – 25.9 million in 2014, compared with 20.3 million men. This helps explain why a smaller share of older women than men were married and living with a spouse in 2014 (41% vs. 67%). By contrast, older women were substantially more likely to be widowed (and not remarried) than older men (37% vs. 13%), and the majority (57%) of these older widowed women lived alone in 2014.

But the share of older adults who are women is smaller now than in the past, because men’s life expectancy has risen more quickly than women’s in recent decades. 7 As a result, women made up 56% of the older U.S. population in 2014, compared with 60% in 1990.

The increase in life expectancy comes with a decline in widowhood, especially for women whose spouses are now living longer. However, the decline in widowhood in recent decades also results from a rising share of divorced older Americans who have not remarried, particularly among those ages 65 to 74. 8

Despite the narrowing of the gender gap in older adults living alone, men remain about half as likely as women to live alone today. One reason for this gender imbalance in the older population living alone is that men are more likely than women to remarry after they have been divorced or widowed. Greater likelihood of remarriage for men is, at least in part, related to the greater availability of partners for men than women. But divorced or widowed men also are more likely than similarly situated women to say that they would like to remarry.

For adults ages 85 and older, solo living has continued a gradual rise

Share of adults ages 85 and older living alone has increased since 1990 for both men and women

Among Americans ages 85 and older, the share living alone has increased modestly – up to 40% in 2014 from 37% in 1990. This occurs as the number of Americans ages 85 and older also has risen, at a faster pace than the older adult population overall. Thus the number of adults ages 85 and older who live alone has also risen, to 2.4 million in 2014. (See appendix table for details on the size and share of older adults by gender and age.)

The share living alone increased for both women and men ages 85 and older between 1990 and 2010 – then leveled off for men and declined slightly for women in 2014. Among these women, the share living alone stood at 46% in 2014, up from 41% in 1990. Similarly, the share of men ages 85 and older living alone increased to 27% in 2014 – up from 24% in 1990.

  1. Living with a spouse means that the spouse in present in the household. The individual may also be living with other relatives or non-relatives, including their children.
  2. The term unmarried refers to individuals who are separated, divorced, widowed or have never been married. This group also includes those who are married, but the spouse is absent from the household.
  3. Group quarters are places where people live in a group arrangement, which is owned or managed by an organization that provides housing and/or services for their residents. Group quarters include nursing homes, in-patient hospice facilities, mental hospitals, group homes and other institutional and non-institutional living arrangements. For more details see the U.S. Census Bureau’s definition.
  4. The National Center for Health Statistics reports that a man who was 65 years old in 2010 could expect to live another 17.7 years on average, up from 15.1 years in 1990. For women the life expectancy at age 65 is 20.3 years in 2010, an increase from 18.9 in 1990.This reduces the gender gap in life expectancy at age 65 from 3.8 years in 1990 to 2.6 years in 2010.
  5. West, Cole, Goodkind, and He, 2014
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