Three-in-ten U.S. adults say they have ever used a dating app or site, but the share of Americans who have done so differs sharply by marital status.
Adults who have never been married or who are currently living with a partner are the most likely to say they have ever used an online dating service: 52% and 46%, respectively, say this. By comparison, 35% of Americans who are divorced, separated or widowed say they have ever used a dating site or app, while 16% of married adults say the same, according to a new analysis of a Pew Research Center survey conducted in October 2019.
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The share of Americans who have ever used an online dating platform has gone up across marital status groups, but the increase has been most pronounced among those living with a partner. The share of cohabiting Americans who say they had ever used a dating site or app has roughly tripled from 15% in 2015 to 46% today. (Pew Research Center’s 2015 survey about online dating was conducted via telephone, while the 2019 survey was fielded online through the Center’s American Trends Panel. In addition, there were some changes in question wording between these surveys. Please read the methodology section for full details on how the 2019 survey was conducted.)
Among the never-married, younger generations are more likely than older generations to have used online dating services. For example, 65% of never-married Millennials (those born between 1981 and 1996) say they have used a dating platform. The same is true for 53% of never-married Gen Xers (born 1965-1980). By comparison, just 29% of never-married Baby Boomers (born 1946-1964) have used an online dating platform. (Relatively few adults in the Silent Generation – born between 1928 and 1945 – never married, so online dating patterns of this subgroup can’t be assessed.)
Although married adults report the lowest rate of previous online dating use, married Millennials are more likely than older generations to have used a dating app or site before. Around three-in-ten married Millennials (31%) say they have used an online dating platform, compared with 17% among married Gen Xers and fewer than one-in-ten among married Boomers (7%) and those in the Silent Generation (4%).
Most never-married users of online dating platforms say they are currently using one of these services or have recently done so. Around a third of online daters who have never been married (34%) – which translates to 18% of all never-married adults – say they are currently using a dating site or app. An additional 28% say they are not currently using an online dating service but have done so in the past year. About four-in-ten online daters who have never tied the knot say that the last time they used a dating site or app was either between one and five years ago or more than five years ago.
As one might expect, relatively few Americans who are married or living with a partner are currently active on dating platforms. Still, among those who say they have ever used an online dating platform, 5% of cohabiting and 3% of married people say they are currently using one of these services. That means 1% of all married adults and 2% of all cohabiting adults in the U.S. are current users of dating sites or apps.