June 18, 2015

5 facts about today’s fathers

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As the American family changes, fatherhood is changing in important and sometimes surprising ways.  Today, fathers who live with their children are taking a more active role in caring for them and helping out around the house. And the ranks of stay-at-home fathers and single fathers have grown significantly in recent decades. At the same time, more and more children are growing up without a father in the home.

The changing role of fathers has introduced new challenges, as dads juggle the competing demands of family and work. Here are some key findings about fathers from Pew Research Center reports.

The Rise in Dual Income Households1Fewer dads are their family’s sole breadwinner. Among married couples with children under age 18, dual-income households are now the dominant arrangement (60%). In 1960, only one-in-four of these households had two incomes; 70% had a father who worked and a mother who was at home with the kids.

The public has mixed views about these changes. Most (62%) say that a marriage where the husband and wife both have jobs and both take care of the house and children is preferable to one where the husband works and the wife takes care of the home and family (30%). At the same time, a majority (74%) says having more women in the workplace makes it harder for parents to raise children.

Moms and Dads, 1965-2011: Roles Converge, but Gaps RemainjMoms and Dads, 1965-2011: Roles Converge, but Gaps Remain2Dads’ and moms’ roles are converging. As the share of dual-income households has risen, the roles of mothers and fathers have begun to converge.

In 1965, fathers’ time was heavily concentrated in paid work, while mothers spent more of their time on housework or childcare. Over the years, fathers have taken on more housework and child care duties—they’ve more than doubled time spent doing household chores and nearly tripled time spent with children since 1965.

Meanwhile, women have increased their time spent doing paid work. Significant gaps remain, but there is clearly a more equal distribution of labor between mothers and fathers these days.

3Work-family balance is a challenge for many working fathers. Pew Research surveys have found that, just like mothers, today’s fathers find it challenging to balance work and family life. Working fathers are as likely as working mothers to say that they would prefer to be home with their children, but that they need to work because they need the income: 48% of working fathers with children under age 18 say they’d prefer to be home while roughly the same share say, even though it takes them away from their family, they want to keep working.

Among working fathers, 50% say that it is difficult for them to balance the responsibilities of their job and their family. This is roughly equal to the share of working mothers who told us they have difficulty balancing work and family. About the same share of working dads (34%) and moms (40%) say they “always feel rushed” in their day-to-day lives.

4Do Today's Fathers and Mothers Spend More Time With Thier Kids Than Their Parents Spent With Them?Today’s dads say they spend at least as much time with their kids as their own fathers spent with them. In a 2012 Pew Research survey, 46% of fathers and 52% of mothers said they personally spend more time with their children than their own fathers and mothers spent with them.

Very few said they spend less time with their children than their parents spent with them. Even so, many fathers feel they’re still not doing enough. Nearly half of all fathers (46%) said they spend too little time with their kids. Only 23% of mothers said the same.

5Why Are Dads Staying Home?More fathers are staying at home to care for kids. Today, 7% of U.S. fathers with children in their household do not work outside the home—that’s roughly 2 million dads. Although stay-at-home dads represent only a small fraction of fathers, their share is up from 4% in 1989.

The reasons they are staying home are changing, too. Much of the increase in stay-at-home fathers can be attributed to more fathers caring for their family. In 2012, 21% of these dads said their main reason for staying home was caring for home or family—four times the share in 1989. Then, more than half (56%) reported being home due to illness or disability. In 2012, only 35% cited illness or disability as their primary reason.

Note: This is an update of a post originally published on June 12, 2014.

Category: 5 Facts

Topics: Family Roles, Household and Family Structure, Income, Marriage and Divorce, Parenthood, Work and Employment

  1. Photo of Kim Parker

    is director of social trends research at Pew Research Center.

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  1. Anonymous4 days ago

    It would be great for the father to spend more time with his children. Going to work and holding your baby for 20 minutes then wanting your video game or go to sleep at 9 just isn’t cool. I say this because being a white female dating a Mexican male all it comes down to is he comes home wants his dinner on the table plays with our daughter 20 to 30 minutes plays his game or watches a movie and goes to sleep wakes up goes to work in the morning. I’ve since her birth have gotten 4 hours a day of sleep at the most leaving 20 hrs to feeding bathing tummy time play time cooking and changing her diaper. It would just be nice if he helped at 3 or 4 in the am sooth her or take a interest in something other than sex or video games.

    1. Ahmad Jenkins21 hours ago

      I wish I could spend more time with mine, I mean physically; we live in different states. Traveling is too expensive to spend time with them as much as we all would like. I use video games (especially online games for Playstation 3) to interact with my children outside of visits, and phone calls. In a way I envy you children’s father, he has an opportunity to engage with them everyday. :/

  2. Anonymous1 month ago

    Thanks Pew Research .The role and responsibilities undertaken by American dad and granddad are finest example of Yoga .Who can be better Teacher of citizenship than dads?

  3. Porter Sykes5 months ago

    It’s a good article with important information. It seems that time has brought a lot of changes to the home. Personally, and I know others may disagree, which is fine, I believe that the traditional home with a father caring for the material needs of the family while the mother stays at home is the best model. As it says above, parents often feel overwhelmed and that they never have enough time. I think both my parents were still pretty busy despite only having one working a job. Having my mom at home has been very beneficial to me. She’s one of my best friends, and so is my dad. I feel that having a parent work at home and care for the children creates the best environment for emotional and spiritual growth in the family with children that learn and love.

  4. Gustavo Marin7 months ago

    Great Job (: Really enjoyed your information.

  5. James patterson1 year ago

    i totally agree with this passage, but fathers should really spend more time with their kids

  6. Gerald FitzGerald1 year ago

    Have you studied the reasons why many children are raised by women without a father in the home. This is especially a problem among African-Americans, and a major reason for household poverty and poor school performance by the children. I would like to at least see what percentage of the men who impregnated the mother 1) never lived with the mother after the child was born, 2) did live with the mother and children for a period, but were missing because of a divorce or separation before the children reached age 18. Of those in each group, what percentage of the men who left the mother were unemployed, drug addicts and/alcoholics. We seem to always conclude the household and children do better when both parents are in the home, but don’t look at the problem in depth or get data that might lead to solutions.